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Compatibility for Scorpios: Who is Scorpio Most Compatible With?

June 7, 2010 By Leave a Comment

It can seem difficult to determine who is the Scorpio most compatible with, especially since the characteristics of their sign can often conflict with many others. Fortunately, compatibility for Scorpios is not as complex as it may seem, as long as the Scorpio learns to harness his or her emotions.

The Scorpio zodiac sign has many traits that can make relationships difficult, no matter what the sign of the other person may be. They can be overly sensitive and defensive, jealous and controlling, and easily resentful if they have not learned how to control their emotions and to use their traits in a positive way. Before you start any relationship with any zodiac sign, it is important for you to know how to deal with your emotions so that you do not let these types of things keep you from you being able to enjoy and express your exciting, passionate, and devotion.

Scorpios can be very passionate in relationships, and they value honesty and fidelity, so the best zodiac love matches for this sign are those in which the Scorpio will feel secure, not controlled, and someone he or she can share their strong and passionate emotions with.

Here are the best compatible signs for Scorpio:

Cancer: A Cancer and Scorpio relationship may be slow to start, especially since both of these water signs can be difficult to open up to one another about their strong feelings. However, once they get to know each other well, this is a good match, especially since Cancer is not the type to do anything that would cause the Scorpio to become upset or jealous.

Capricorn: Capricorn can be another good sign for Scorpio relationships. Capricorns are more reserved, and therefore again do not do anything that would cause the Scorpio to become jealous or resentful. Rather than seeing the Scorpio as possessive, the Capricorn will feel great security in this match.

Pisces: Pisces is a water sign, and is also usually a compatible sign with Scorpio. Pisces can be dependent and they will find great security with the Scorpio. Pisces will open the Scorpio up to new creative experiences, while the Scorpio will help the Pisces to be more focused.

Worst Matches for Scorpio:

Aries: The Aries likes control and freedom and the Scorpio can be possessive and more drawn to being settled down – which typically spells for disaster. It can be very hard for the Aries to feel comfortable by the Scorpio’s controlling tendencies, and the Scorpio will be very jealous and resentful of the Aries social activities.

Leo: Leos love attention and being social – which is usually a recipe for disaster for the Scorpio who can quickly become jealous of their mate’s attention from others, especially those of the opposite sex.

Sagittarius: A Sagittarius loves freedom and going places and doing things – and this can often be too much for the possessive Scorpio. Sagittarius does not like to be dominated, and this can also cause issues as well.

Aquarius: This is another relationship headed for disaster, especially since Aquarius hates possessiveness and control. The Aquarius is emotionally detached, and will likely many times inadvertently do or say things that will greatly upset the sensitive Scorpio.

Gemini: While the Gemini and Scorpio can be great friends, they don’t tend to do well in romantic endeavors. This again boils down to issues with trust – since Gemini is very social and the Scorpio not so much.

Libra: Libras and Scorpios may hit it off well at first, but it is not a relationship that will last through the test of time, especially since charming Libra does not readily accept the dominating style of the Scorpio.

Variable Signs for Compatibility With Scorpio:

Scorpio: When two people have a lot of the same personality traits it can either be hit or miss. Having so much in common is always a plus – but it can be very hard with the controlling tendencies of Scorpio, since neither wants to be controlled but both want control.

Taurus: Taurus is another hit or miss match up for Scorpio. The Taurus can be very loyal and so possessiveness will likely not be an issue – but their stubborn qualities can be a problem with someone who is dominating.

Have any thoughts about the compatibility matches for Scorpio? Have you been in a relationship with a Scorpio or are you a Scorpio who has noticed things about the people you’ve been in relationships with? Share your experiences in the comments section below.

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Scorpio Characteristics

June 6, 2010 By 1 Comment

Scorpio characteristics can sometimes seem intense and they tend to get a lot of negative stereotypes as well. But when you take the time to learn about and understand the personality traits of Scorpio you can learn exactly what it takes to keep a Scorpio sign happy.

Scorpios birthdates range from between October 24th until November 22nd. Their symbol is the Scorpion and as a water sign, they can be very emotionally powerful people.

Some words used in the typical Scorpio description include controlling, jealous, emotional, forceful, compulsive, and secretive. While many of those words don’t typically have positive connotations, the Scorpio is not a bad person – you just need to get to understand how they think and why they do the things they do. If Scorpios learn how to harness their energy into something positive, much good can be accomplished. It is important for a Scorpio to learn how to use their traits in a positive manner in order to achieve happiness. Scorpios must learn how to control their impulsive urges and their passion in order to be happy. Once they do so, the sky is the limit.

Many Scorpios often seem as if they are withdrawn from the rest of the world. They do not like being the center of attention, and usually will feel slightly uncomfortable in social situations. This does not mean that they are anti-social, in fact some can be very pleasant and friendly at social gatherings – they just typically would rather be at home or in a more isolated environment. They can sometimes be seen as loners, but this does not mean they do always like to be alone. They also aren’t typically boring people, since they often can make any situation a little more exciting easily.

The Scorpio, like most water signs, often struggles with harnessing their emotions. It can be hard for them to contain them, especially when they try very hard not to express them to others. For this reason, it is not unusual for them to have large outbursts because they don’t tend to deal with and express them until they are overwhelmed. The rest of the time they may seem stone cold and unaffected.

The Scorpio is very sensitive and defensive in nature. Just like a scorpion, it will attack if it senses even the slightest of threat. They do not handle criticism well, nor do they really like praise or flattery.  The more neutral you are toward them, the better. The Scorpio can benefit from learning that not everything that happens to them should be taken personally and how to better keep their feelings in check.

Scorpios can have great will power and so it is easy for them to accomplish many things if they are not swept away by emotions. They have much determination to do what is necessary to reach their goals. They can be successful in many careers. If they have a cause to be passionate about, they can very likely make results happen.

Scorpios have great zeal in researching and learning more about the deeper side of things.  They are not always happy with what may seem obvious or what appears to be on the surface. For this reason, they can make for excellent physicians and scientists, who always question the why and won’t accept mediocre answers. As a friend, they will use this trait in getting to know the deeper side of you that others may not see.

In relationships, the Scorpio is often afraid of getting hurt, and so it can be difficult to grow close to them right away. Once they find someone they love, it is typically for the long haul and it will be a passionate relationship. They will get to know your deeper side, though it will be hard for you to get them to open up in the same way to you, but it is possible. Scorpio relationships have a tendency for jealousy and resentment, so learning how to deal with these things will help them have healthier and happier romantic endeavors as well.

Although Scorpios possess a lot of negative traits and characteristics, if they instead choose a positive path they can use these traits for many good causes. Their determination can help them to achieve many great things, and their quest for the truth and investigating into things deeper can help them make very important discoveries that can be beneficial not only for themselves, but often for others as well.

Do you have any insight or experiences to share about the characteristics of Scorpio? Tell us in the comments section below!

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Capricorn and Scorpio Compatibility: Do a Capricorn and Scorpio Match?

May 23, 2010 By 1 Comment

Many people are often confused about Capricorn and Scorpio compatibility and whether or not they make a good zodiac love match. To understand how these two work together, it’s a good start to understand each sign individually first.

Capricorns are very practical people, and often somewhat cautious when it comes to relationships and dating. Capricorns don’t usually open up and express themselves very easily, which can make it difficult for them to get to know someone better and on a more intimate level.

Scorpios are typically characterized as being powerful and intense, yet also secretive and withdrawn. Scorpios must learn how to control both their energy and emotions to be successful in love and relationships.

While these two signs at first glance do not seem like a compatible love match, they actually share quite a number of common characteristics.

Here are some of the common characteristics that both Scorpio and Capricorn possess:

Center of Attention: Neither likes to draw attention to each other and often you will find both somewhat withdrawn and quiet in social situations if they do not feel comfortable.

No Game Playing: Both do not like game playing in relationships and deeply value trust, loyalty, and honesty.

Commitment: Both signs take commitment seriously and when searching for a mate look for someone they see long term potential in. One night stands and meaningless relationships do not typically appeal to either sign.

Ambition: Both are ambitious with a strong desire to succeed. The two signs work together to achieve their dreams and harness each other’s power well to meet success.

Like all relationships, there will be some challenges these two signs may have to face from time to time. The first challenge for many is getting to know each other. Both signs are prone to being quiet and not talking about emotions openly, and so it can take some time for each other to truly get to know one another and feel at a level of openness for good relationship communication.

Scorpios can often be hot headed and quick to react to different situations – the Capricorn has the patience to help the Scorpio learn how to control and harness these emotions.

Neither person likes to feel controlled, so it is also important that neither attempts to control the other. When matched together, these two signs can be very powerful – but they must each rule together – not one with all of the power.

All in all, Scorpio and Capricorn relationships can work out to be very successful. As long as both signs are understanding of each other’s characteristics, the answer to “Do Capricorn and Scorpio Match?” is a resounding yes.

Have you been in a Scorpio Capricorn relationship? Share your experiences in the comments below.

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